Abandon the values that lead you to problems that can hardly be solved.
Some problems just can’t be solved, unless you realize that they aren’t actually problems in the first place. The most common unsolvable problem people have is the lack of pleasure in their lives. This leads them to look for it in self-destructive ways. When you pursue happiness instead, pleasure automatically follows.
Another unsolvable problem is wanting material success. We tend to measure our self-worth based on how much money we make,what kind of car we drive, or how big our house is, but this kind of thinking is toxic and detrimental to our happiness. In fact, research indicates that all humans need to be happy is to have our basic physical needs fulfilled