Differentiate between good and bad values.
Once you have differentiated between your good and bad values, you will be able to eliminate the bad and focus on the good ones! . However, when you follow this mindset, you are not listening to yourself. By identifying your own values, you can make decisions on what you want or do based on how important it is to you specifically. You will know the real value of the choices you make.
Most importantly, by identifying your good and bad values, you can measure your success - follow your good values, and you will achieve success.