Many people look at the hardships that life puts them through and get angry, or they give up. Neither of these options will help you achieve what you want. However, when you learn the lesson that life is trying to teach you, and begin to change yourself to solve the problem you face, you will grow into a wise, healthy, and happy person.
When life pushes you around, learn the lesson and move on.
Life pushes everyone around and forces them to face pain and struggles. Instead of giving up, fighting back, or blaming others, reflect upon what got you to the situation you are in, and learn the lesson life is trying to teach you.
Recognize that you are the problem.
When you think others are the problem, you will have to change them to solve the problem—a nearly impossible feat! However, when you think that you are the problem, you will only have to change yourself. And it is much easier to change yourself than everyone else.