There is a difference in how the feminine and masculine grow. The masculine grow by challenging and the feminine by praising. That’s why it’s important that you don’t challenge your woman, but rather you praise her. This means that instead of saying, “I hope you don’t gain more weight,” it’s better to say, “I love the shape of your body”.
When you want to persuade your woman, praise her instead of challenging her.
For men this might be counterintuitive, as they are the opposite.
You should also praise the elements that are not praiseworthy in order for them to become so.
Praises motivate. Challenges do not.