There is a polarity in energy that connects you: you have the masculine energy, and she has the feminine. And to keep this energy, you must play your masculine role. This means you must be decisive. You cannot say, “Do whatever you want.” If you are with this woman at this moment, you should support her with your decision. She is free to do whatever she wants, but polarity of energy must be there.
When a woman asks for your opinion, answer her with confidence, but also give her free choice of what she wants.
For example, don’t say, “They are both nice,” but instead say, “I like the red shoes, but what’s most important to me is that you’re happy.” Her intuitive decision is probably better than yours, but you must play your role.